Blog Entry 2: What does “success” look like to you?

The perception of “success” depends on the achievement of an individual’s personal goals while upholding their values. Personally, I would consider myself successful if I am doing work that benefits people other than myself and I feel that I have a purpose in my life. It is also important that I actually enjoy doing the work and I enjoy my life in general. I think the feeling that one’s work actually has purpose and is not just meaningless contributes significantly to one’s self-esteem as well as their overall happiness. If I were making a lot of money working really hard at a job that I knew really had no impact on anybody, I would feel like all of my time and effort had been wasted. If this were the case, I would be working purely out of a motivation to earn money. The amount of money one possesses is not an accurate indicator of that person’s level of success– for example, teachers can go to sleep every night knowing they have had a profound impact on several children’s lives while still earning significantly less than an investment banker. This feeling of purpose allows one to be more content with their life, because everybody wants to feel as though they are important and have contributed something to the world. This feeling of purpose is especially important to overall success because life is short, and the only real things we can accomplish during it are 1) impacting other people, 2) causing change in the world and 3) having fun along the way. The rest are details that will go away after we die. Success lies in focusing in on these three goals while not allowing the rest to phase us.

Blog/Vlog Entry 1: Personal Best Leadership Experience

My personal best leadership experience took place when I was the System Manager of my High School Aerospace Scholars team the summer before my senior year. In this experience, myself and 47 others stayed overnight for a week at a hotel near NASA, working 14 hour days each day for 7 days straight. It was a harrowing and exhausting experience for everybody involved, but I believe it functioned as a very effective crash course in leadership.

Going into the week, I felt very intimidated by all the other people who had been chosen to participate. They all seemed to know a lot more about aerospace and care a lot more about it than I did–I was just there for the internship credit. I was even more intimidated when, on the second day when it was time to assign team roles, I was nominated and elected to be the team leader. I wasn’t sure how to go about it at first, as I had never really had experience leading a 12-person team like this. The week was absolutely packed full of intensive assignments and there were multiple deadlines to meet each day. It was a major challenge to divide up all the work to be done at once–three people working on one project, two on another, two on yet another, to the point where the team was working on 5 different projects at one time. I didn’t feel like I deserved to be telling everybody else what to do when I myself didn’t even know how to do most of what I was telling them to do. Along with all of this, everybody was exhausted and sleep deprived by the third day and it grew very hard to keep the team members motivated. To counteract this, I tried to make sure everybody was still enjoying their own assignment, and I made frequent rounds to all the different projects being worked on, helping where I could while still talking and joking to keep the experience enjoyable.

The first lesson that I learned was that I couldn’t try too hard to be everybody’s friend. This is not to say that I couldn’t be nice to people and treat them with respect. However, when people began to pull me aside to ask whether I really cared whether the lander was perfect or if I didn’t mind if they just put half effort into it, I had to be firm in my insistence that they put full effort into it for the rest of the team’s sake. The program we were involved in was a competition, and every member of the team wanted to win, so I felt that I owed it to the rest of the team to hold all members of the team to an equally high standard and refuse to make exceptions for people who were my friends.

The next important lesson I learned was that I had to treat my team members like human beings rather than tools for me to use. When delegating work, I could not regulate every aspect of what each team member did and expect them to produce results that exactly matched what I imagined. Instead, I had to allow them some of their own creative freedom so they could do their part of the project the way they wanted to. This gave the team members more motivation to do their work because they actually enjoyed what they were doing more. It also led to some more creative and innovative solutions to problems that I had never considered.

I learned that the relationship between a leader and his team can be mutually beneficial–not only does the leader provide guidance and motivation for the team, but the team can provide assurance and support for the leader. When I was unsure of which route to choose or overwhelmed with the amount of remaining assignments to complete, my teammates were there to support me and help however they could.

By the end of the week, perhaps the most important lesson I learned was that when leading a team, the end does not always justify the means. Leaders can do what they think they must to win, but sometimes it is more important to stay true to themselves and the people who chose them to lead by keeping their own values in mind. During this week at NASA, for example, the main goal of everybody there was really just to learn and have fun. Though there was a competitive aspect to it, it was not worth making the entire experience less enjoyable just to win the competition. My team members chose me to lead them because they thought I would be able to give them the best chance to win the competition, but they were all ultimately more focused on how educational the experience was. For this reason, I learned by the end how to be a less overbearing and more understanding leader that my team members highly approved of.

 

Leadership Photo Collage

Legacy

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Learn how successful leaders recover from failure [Digital image]. (2018, March 1). Retrieved June 20, 2018, from https://corporatebytes.in/learn-how-successful-leaders-recover-from-failure/
I want to be remembered as a leader who genuinely cared about the members of his team just as much as he cared about achieving their common goal. The image above displays a leader who is not only guiding his team members to success, but supporting them and protecting their safety along the way. 

Perception of Leadership

IoT Advanced Analytics Decision Management [Digital image]. (n.d.). Retrieved June 20, 2018, from https://www.mariner-usa.com/iot-advanced-analytics/
I perceive a leader as someone who is widely trusted by his peers to make good decisions with his team’s best interests at heart. The image above displays how facing such decisions requires analytical thinking and self confidence to be made quickly and effectively.

Where Leadership Occurs

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Leading by Example – Self Confident Women [Digital image]. (n.d.). Retrieved June 20, 2018, from https://www.selfconfidentwomen.com.au/leading-example/
Leadership by example can be exhibited in small ways in daily life, such as choosing not to join in rude or reckless behavior with one’s peers, thus encouraging other friends to do the same thing. Leadership can be seen simply in someone who maintains a positive outlook on life, encouraging others to do the same and view the world in a more positive light.

An Ideal Leader

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Big Picture Thinking in Business Course [Digital image]. (n.d.). Retrieved June 20, 2018, from https://study.com/academy/course/big-picture-thinking-in-business.html
Being the ideal leader requires an ability to see the big picture and understand how small pieces play into it. An ideal leader also possesses the communication skills to portray to his team members their role and his expectations of them so that all the pieces may fit together smoothly.  

Influential Leader

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LeBron James shares his best advice on leadership [Digital image]. (2016, September 24). Retrieved June 20, 2018, from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=URbrID2l1_k
LeBron James inspires me in how he ignites a desire within his teammates to be better–not only urging them to strive for greatness, but helping to actually get them there and making his teammates better when he’s on the court. I respect his willingness and ability to take the blame for mistakes with composure and class as well as his intensely competitive spirit that allows him to settle for nothing less than greatness–I strive to be this kind of leader one day and to pursue greatness in whatever I do. 

Good Team Member

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Puzzle Piece [Digital image]. (2014, August 4). Retrieved June 20, 2018, from https://www.freeimages.com/search/jigsaw
A good team member must understand his role on the team and be willing to fulfill his duties for the betterment of the team, regardless of his personal feelings about the work. A good team member accepts his role and finds a way to shine in that role as best he can.